Free Love Advice

Emotional Rejection

Free love advice can be positive especially when you have been unceremoniously dumped by your true love. Emotional rejection can eat at the heart and soul. Your best mate is invaluable as a shoulder to cry on in such moments. You will lap up their free love advice probably with a cup of tea in your trembling hand, or even a pint down the pub. But we all know that nowadays we can access free love advice on the internet. Of course we don’t have to take it and probably won’t, but we love to listen anyway, may be because we yearn to ease the pain of hurt and rejection.

Some free love advice is hard to swallow, but we are still listing a few helpful points below:

a) Be frugal, avoid throwing his/her old love letters, jewellery, shoes and hair dryer, etc. out the window, you never know where they might land.

b) Avoid any further emotional clinches “toute suite”, especially with the narcissistic, the player, the suspicious, proud, insecure, violent, envious and vindictive.

c) Re-access feelings of self worth, even if the lover has dumped you because you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle of the tube.

d) Avoid over reaction. Do not assail you lover with letters, emails, texts and phone calls. Button down the hatches and stand alone with your dignity.

e) Neutralize painful emotional fall out. Get a new hairdo, buy some great perfume. You could also get a massage, beauty treatment or buy a party dress or shirt. Spoil yourself.

f) See a couple of horror/slasher movies with your girl or boyfriends.

g) Do not allow perceptions of “what happened” to congeal in your mind, in other words do not keep going “over and over” every word, or action that lead to the collapse of your relationship. If you feel a compulsion to do so, buy Bach Flower White Chestnut remedy at your local health food store and you will find those repetitive thoughts easing off.

h) Re-create yourself. Let go of past upsets, refuse to wallow in recrimination, regret and memories. Be prepared to turn the page and pretend to be someone else even if for five minutes. So become absolutely gorgeous, brilliant, adored and mega successful and soon you will be.

i) Remember that famous Richard Burton trick. As a brilliant young actor starting out, he drew attention to himself by standing perfectly still on stage, which was contrary to the gesticulating actors around him. Be like Rich, remain cool, if you feel like throwing a custard pie in his/her face, do it, but in the privacy of your own home.

A free psychic will love to do a tarot card reading, or chat to you for a few moments about what your new lover will be like. You might not want to know about that, you are hoping that “the one” will return to you. But you also know that the most important relationship in your life is the one with yourself and if you don’t get that right, it is unlikely you will get your “love story” right either. Always remember Aunt Mabel’s advice, “don’t call him honey, wait till he calls you!”