Divorce

The Divorce Experience

Divorce and spiritual consciousness apparently don’t mix. Divorce is a painful experience, with little to recommend it. The breakdown of a marriage is gruelling, especially when we are looking at issues like the sharing of finances, property and the responsibilities of a growing family. The last thing one would look at is spirituality and consciousness when the bailiffs come to visit or the divorce lawyer asks for his exorbitant fee. In fact, when we connect to a psychic about divorce, we usually ask questions like what will the judge rule? Will the financial settlement be fifty-fifty? And who will get the house? The material anguish of divorce can pound on one’s well being day after day; it is all one can do to get out of bed in the morning. Yet the question we might really need to ask is can our relationship be healed, does it still stand a chance and if not, can we create a positive relationship with ourselves and build a magical life all the same?

Evolution

The fact is we can evolve. There are solutions. We can pray that wounded relationships morph into something better. Sometimes when it seems well nigh impossible to rebuild harmony the best thing we can do is to connect to that aforementioned spiritual consciousness and allow the universal love to flow within. If we can do that we can make our life work not only after our marriage has failed but alone, with the kids or even a new partner. Why? Because universal consciousness and the sacred in life makes us younger, more beautiful, more sensitive, more compassionate and far more sexy.

Power of The Mind

Consciousness, spiritual awareness, mystical perception, God or Goddess, call it what you will, heals emotional scars. That higher power guides us along the right way. It plugs us into wisdom and detaches us from troubling emotions, it brings as unity and it awakens positivity. It heals heartache and sad childhood memories. Consciousness lifts us up to another level, it is as if a universal Higher Power responds to our call for help and becomes a balm to our wounds. With consciousness we can co create the kind of life we want with ourselves and another again.

We are all aware that emotional issues hark back to childhood and are the true triggers of our pain. As a result we harbour negative energies, less than loving attitudes, we hook into patterns and the bits and pieces that have been hurt and need realignment.

Spiritual Link

If a couple does not develop a spiritual link, when life gets rough, when economic problems hit hard it will be very difficult, sometimes even impossible, to heal the emotional glitches that destroy a relationship. Without spiritual love to support one we get stuck in old patterns, we no longer act wisely we react rashly. We don’t know we need a universal healing and clearing, we don’t know we need to align with our loving heart energies yet again. A spiritual healer will tell us we need to watch our destructive self talk, step out of our egos and try and understand ourselves and each other. Even if we divorce we can still build bridges and not end up hating each other. So even if divorce is an uphill struggle, remember spiritual awareness and divine love will heal us every time.

One does not have be to be religious to withstand the emotional angst and challenge of divorce, yet without a spiritual belief system, such as meditation, prayer, healing or creative visualization, it will be hard to understand why we divorced , what went wrong and even find the right tools to continue with our lives minus resentment and blame. In fact without an awareness of spiritual consciousness, or an awakening that helps us understand we can no longer blame other people, it will be hard to start a new life. But consciousness and spirituality will help us along our way and even transform us for the better forever.