Gay Single

A gay single man seeking love, intensely, passionately and truly might need much clarity of purpose in that search.

Michael Shernoff

Michael Shernoff works with gay men as a therapist and reports the case of Edward, who is 36 years old. Edward said “I just don’t understand how come it’s so difficult to find a man who wants the same things I do!”

Shernoff writes “Edward had been single for almost four years and had come to therapy because he wondered if there was something wrong with him, he couldn’t seem to meet the right person. Occasionally, he would have sex with men he had just met but he preferred to be intimate within the context of dating someone who might become a permanent partner. He had lots of close friends–male and female–and seemed as capable as anyone of forming a satisfying, long-term relationship with another man. So why was he finding himself always, chronically, single?

In his article Michael Shernoff also reported that gay single men are tired of being categorized as “unable to remain in a stable relationship”, in fact young gay single men are depressed because they believe being gay means having to give up any hopes of having a partner and family life.

I’m questioning whether or not I’m really even gay since I’ve never had a long-term lover in more than 20 years of being out, complained Carl, an acclaimed architect and graduate who had come to Shernoff to talk about the loneliness he was experiencing.

I feel really inferior to men who are younger, less attractive and less intelligent than me who seem to always be dating someone, he asked Shernoff. “Is there something wrong with me?”

Betty Berzon

Betty Berzon, author of Permanent Partners: Building Gay and Lesbian Relationships also reported some of the difficulties gay single men face.”Some men’s parents have told them directly that it’s okay for them to be gay, but don’t start bringing men around to family gatherings.”

Above and beyond problems and prejudices any psychic “worth her salt” will guide a gay single far past his social conditioning into the truth of his own heart. The psychic will advise a gay single how to understand his soul energy and how he can manifest true love if he connects to that metaphysical force field flowing within and all around him.

A sensitive psychic also knows that when a gay single man is addicted to left brain mind games he blocks the flow of spontaneous passion and often that magnetic mystical attraction too. But the psychic also knows that true love is the answer and to access it a gay single must connect to the magnificence of his Higher Self.

A man who loves another man with all his heart is indeed in touch with his inner light and spiritual power. Together a gay couple’s sensitivity can touch the heights of love and passion. They know that hiding “that light” deprives others of their joy, their creativity and their precious individuality. When that inspiring light is accessed, the gay single will be nothing less than an inspiration and attract a true soul mate into his life! What could be more delightful than that?

Therefore when a gay single man seeks romantic advice, the aware psychic will tell him that accessing spiritual love could reveal a new way of “perceiving” a relationship, a way that evolves through a profound awareness of Spirit and will surely lead to the truest lover of all, a soul love!